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    mmt72704 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jan 21, 2009, 10:21 PM
    Love hurts
    OK I'm new to this place bt I'm going through a tough time... my boyfriend is having to go to jail for 6 months on a residencial burglary charge.. so about 12 days ago he left on a drinking binge and getn high and didn't even say goodbye.. he calld after the 4th day and told me he left because he doesn't want any girl to wait 6 months on him.. bt before he went to jail for 10 days and I waited for him and spent 75 dollars on collect calls for him and by the way we live together up until 12 days ago... anyway he's only calld twice and he has told me he will call me back bt never does.. anyway today I askd him if he has another girlfriend and he said he had been talking to people.. and I askd him how could he leave me and go find another girl when he's going to have to leave her and hurt her like he was afraid of doing to me.. and his reply was "she knws I'm going to jail and doesn't care." jake and I have been together almost a year and were hardly insperable.. I did everythng for him and put my heart and soul into the relationship.I bought him everythng he needed and let him drive my car around.just don't understand how he could forget about a year of a relationship for another girl? Bt another thng he's been into the party life since he was 16 he's been living on his own.
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    MarkwithaK Posts: 955, Reputation: 107
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    Jan 21, 2009, 10:28 PM

    My way of thinking? Be glad he is gone! Change your number and move on. He obviously has no respect for you or himself.
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    Jan 21, 2009, 11:01 PM

    Convicted criminal, alcoholic, drug addict, aaand he leaves you for someone else? Do you love yourself? Even respect yourself? LEAVE HIM and ERASE him forever from your life.

    Probably best not to date convicted criminals ---if he can't manage his own life how do you expect him to manage a relationship?
    You can find someone WAAAAY better for you.
    You just have to believe you are worth more than a scumbag like that.
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    Jan 21, 2009, 11:30 PM

    Agree with the two above. This 6 months of government imposed NC will be the best thing that ever happened to you if you take the steps to cleanse him from your system.
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    Jan 23, 2009, 06:07 PM

    Leave him alone, or put up with the things that come with loving a loser.
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