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grdakin · Dec 29, 2008, 04:11 AM

I don't know what to do, wer both 16, and have a good relationship cept she can't feel anything after a couple minutes of sex, and I know I'm BIG enuf. It puts a huge a huge strain on our relationship and makes both of us depressed and cry. I just want to know if there is a cure or way to fix this problem.

simoneaugie · Dec 31, 2008, 08:07 PM

Her sexual feeling receptors are mostly on the outside or just an inch or two into the vagina. So, the size of your penis is not the problem except that it may be stretching her to the point of numbness before she's ready for it.

Does she know what causes her to orgasm? Does she masturbate? If so, she can show you what feels good to her. A few women prefer rough stimulation, like if you were stroking your penis. Most women are quite sensive all over, especially down there. Most especially the clitoris which sometimes must be touched only indirectly.

Remember that the vagina is not an inverted penis. Because it also serves as a passage for blood and babies it isn't much more sensitive than the inside of your mouth. Her penis (clitoris)is located on the outside of her body and has as many nerve endings as your penis.

Play gently with her, asking for feedback until she has an orgasm. Then, insert your penis and see if she feels anything good.

Fr_Chuck · Dec 31, 2008, 08:22 PM

Size has nothing to do with it that is a 16 year olds myth. Perhaps she is not emotionally ready Perhaps inward fear of being a mom ( what types of birth control is being used

grdakin · Jan 3, 2009, 01:17 AM

We have really good communication when it comes to sex, and she is deffinently not afraid of getting pregnant. I had been resurching and I beleve I solved the problem. I told her she had to focus and we had a lot of fore play and we had great sex, thank you for trying to help though I really appreciate it. :)

blue_st4r · Jan 3, 2009, 03:01 AM

You don't have to have sex. If sex makes both of you sad, then try foreplay. The idea is to give and take pleasure. Some people feel the same about anal sex, oral sex or even foreplay. Different people have issues with different things.. Find something that arouses both of you and do it together even if its mutual masturbation.