[lonely29]

I met this real nice guy at work but he is married he is not happy with his wife he said he likes me a lot and thinks about me all the time and we text back and forth a lot I really like him a lot he said they are trying to see if they can get happy togeather and put a 2 month time limit one it that's crazy to me and he will only hang out and talk no sex he said he doesn't want to do anything till he knows what's going to happian between him and his wife he said he don't want me for sex.I just want to know if anyone thinks he will leave her for me? She is 26 and he is 31 and this is the second time she has been married. :confused:

[dannysgirl630]

Well I don't know if he will or not. But one thing to consider, is "if they will do it with you then they will do it too you as well".

Maybe it's a good thing that he says no sex at least you don't have to worry about him cheating completely. He'll just get an emotional connection to some other chic behind your back like he did with you behind his wife's back. Can you handle it if that happens?

[N0help4u]

All you can do is wait. Don't get involved with him at all. As long as you don't get involved with him the relationship ending can not end up be taken as 'the other woman' and if it hadn't been for her I would still be his wife. Let it end on it's own first if it is going to end

[jjwoodhull]

You should not want him to leave her for you. If he is going to leave her, then it has to be 100% about him and her. You should not play into it at all.

If he does leave her, the worst thing he could do is jump right into a new relationship.

Leave him alone. Let his relationship with his wife play out however it's going to. Find yourself a man that is available.

[Fr_Chuck]

Yes, and then how long till he leaves you for someone else.

But no I doubt he plans on leaving, if he was going to leave he would just leave today.

So don't have any contact with him, no text, no personal contact, until he is divorced

[liz28]

He's married that should've stop you from even wanting to hang out with him. If he was so unhappy with his wife don't you think he would've left her a long time ago.

Do you really want to stick around and play the waiting game? Don't believe every line that he feeds you because he wants you to feel sorry for him and he will say anything. You don't know what is going on in his household so leave him alone and find someone that is available to be with you because there are plenty of single guys out there.

You should review the other threads from women that was and is currently in your shoes and see the outcome. None of them had a happy ever after.

[kitten420]

This had happened to a friend of mine... Sorry to face the facts but he isn't leaving his wife anytime soon. If he was and if he wanted to he would have done it by now. And the most likley income would be him leaving her and then he will end up leaving u either for his wife or another chick. And that is in all reality.

[Starbucks21]

This is one of those if he does... you have a high risk of him doing it to you...

If he doesn't you become really broken hearted.

The secretary wife isn't fun because then there's a new secretary to worry about.

I'd run as far as you can from this