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    Aug 24, 2008, 03:40 PM
    What is the best way to get them to leave me alone
    My brothers and sisters are anoying and they don't know when to leave me alone. Im sick of them always making fun of me when I do absoulty nothing wrong. I have a short temper one of these days I feel like I'm going to snap on someone. Can't anyone give me advise
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    Aug 24, 2008, 04:51 PM
    Use reverse phychology on them. Whenever they tease you, instead of getting mad,. smile, ignore, walk away. If they confront you, say "I'm sorry you feel that way...has your day been bad?"... or something like that (not sarcastically) If you make it look like it doesn't bother you at all, they will have nothing to fight with you about! It might take time, but after awhile they will just give up.

    Also, ask them about their day, and show genuine interest in the things that they have done. Ask them questions about things that they are interested in. Ask for their advice with things. Even if it's just an outfit you are thinking of wearing.

    The teasing will slow down a lot if you take the power away from them by standing your ground, and not letting them get to you.
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    Aug 24, 2008, 05:48 PM
    Aside from beating them? Ignoring or laughing with them will usually stop/piss them off. Works for me.
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    Sep 5, 2008, 11:48 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by IamDummy
    Aside from beating them? Ignoring or laughing with them will usually stop/piss them off. Works for me.
    That's an everydaything...
    But don't beat them up too bad, calm dwn.
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    Sep 5, 2008, 03:23 PM
    Getting physical and violent will solve nothing, and only escalate the situation! Are you guys kidding me? What kind of advice is that to give a child. No wonder we live in the society we do, when the first thing that comes to mind is violence!
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    Sep 6, 2008, 01:29 PM
    Brothers and sisters and people in general will stop bothering you if you don't have any reaction to them. No reaction on your part, no fun for them. :) Don't pay any attention and they will soon stop.

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