You need to be able to just walk away for the sake, future and health of you and your girls. And yes, it's going to be tough, you will have days where you don't know where to go or what to do but if you keep pushing forward more of the positive will come into your life as you take out the negative that he's brought into your life.
There is help out there to help women get back on their feet. There are churches to help out, friends and organizations. Hopefully, you've been smart and been putting money on the side and doing some research. I think the biggest step is just taking the first one.
You are the protector of your girls, he is obviously a control freak. I don't know the man, so you also have to take his personality and history into consideration i.e. his temper, etc. You should be stealth in your plan to go away and start a new life.
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