[Zoomcrash]

Heey, I need help,
Me and my friends are in grade 9.
And , I have these two friends who have become OBSESSED with hanging out with grade 12 guys, appose to me and my other friends.
Me and my other friends don't know what to do with them
We don't want to loose them as friends
Yet its becoming hard when they are spending more time with
The older guys instead of us,
Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh what do we do! :confused::(

[jynx3943]

Jeeze... well, if they are true friends, then they will understand how you feel. The grade 12 guys are too old though cause I was one of them just a few years ago and I remember what was always on my mind. WHATEVER YOU DO THOUGH, DO NOT do anyhting you do not feel as completely appropriate or comfortable with any older guys. Even if they think you are not cool because you don't "put out" or drink or smoke, who cares? Think about you first! You matter to you, they don't as much...

[Zoomcrash]

Yeeeah thanks
Were you a grade 12 guy or girl?
But what I don't get
Is why don't they have their own ladie friends in grade 12
But instead they have to go after the Lg's
:S its really gay,
They've asked to hang out
But,
I really don't want anything to do with them,

[Alty]

You're going your way, they're going theirs, it happens.

You don't have to do anything you aren't comfortable with, and I think it's a good idea to stay away from these older guys, but your friends want to go down this road, and you can't stop them.

Tell them how you feel, maybe they'll understand. If not, I'm afraid you might lose their friendship.

Good luck.

[Zoomcrash]

Thank you,
Yeah, its time to re evaluate the friendship I think