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    X-Z3R0 Posts: 42, Reputation: 2
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    Nov 11, 2008, 06:07 PM
    Am I wasting my time?
    Hey guys, like time no speak.
    All right as some of you probably forgot, I had a girlfriend for a year, who at the end of that hell-ridden relationship, got me arrested. But I'm not getting into that right now, completely different subject. But I've had no contact with this girl for over 6 months since everything, and I was slowly recovering. About a week ago, I finally met another girl and we started talking, which turned to flirting which turned into a meeting. We met up, she came to my house, we watched a movie, ended up making out. I've been talking to her daily since (this happened sunday) and I feel a lot for this girl, there's just something about her that's so compelling to me. Today though we started talking, and I find her being distant, and she went out while messed up on T3's. I basically tld her to take care of herself and she told me I don't care what happens. I also find her bringing up her ex's a lot and sometimes sheer avoidance, then complete attraction to me. I know it sounds stupid but, I just don't want to make the same stupid mistake I made with my ex, and waste another year of my life. So is this girl going to be worth it, or am I just wasting my time?
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    Nov 11, 2008, 06:53 PM
    So you find a female and like her and you make out, she gets high and act funny and you wondering if this relationship will last?

    Talaniman rule- to much, to fast crash and burn.

    Talaniman rule- drugs, women, and your heart, will not mix.

    Talaniman rule-never compare exes to the next one.

    Having put that out there, I suspect your gun shy, and maybe haven't quite got over your bad experience, with the ex.

    The good news, maybe you should be cautious with this one.

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