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    mmhmace Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 11, 2008, 10:16 AM
    My insecurities are stalling our relationship!
    Im currently talking to this boy I met at a party who I really like him. We've been talking for about two months now. He says he's interstead in me but its hard for me to believe that because of my own insecurities. He is really attractive and a lot of girls like him. We also go to different schools and we see each other about once a week but we talk almost everyday but sometimes the phone gets scilent. I some times feel like I'm not good enough for him, perty enough for him or fun enough, but I really am a fool for fun . Some how when I get around him I go into a shell. I also find myself withdrawing my thoughts and feeling from him because I don't truly know what he wants out of our relationship so I don't express my feeling so I won't get hurt. But one day I asked him what was his type and he said me. My question is what can I do to get him 100% focused on me so that he would want to make his girl? Or what can I do to get over my insecurities w/o ending our relatioship?
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    kctiger Posts: 3,653, Reputation: 1319
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    Nov 11, 2008, 11:05 AM

    You need to focus on working on yourself. I would suggest going to seek professional help. First of all, how old are you, and how many relationships have you had? It could just be your own inexperience to this type of situation.

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