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    Nov 3, 2008, 04:07 AM
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    Dear sir I have a problem with my family on a girl she's also belong from my family but my family don't want that I make her my wife becoz they said to me that her carector is not good and she's also told me about her past that she don some mistakes in her past but now she's OK so what can I do tell me and how can I convence my family.
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    Nov 3, 2008, 07:50 AM

    I have no clue about your culture, so I am going to relate a story from my own past. My friends and family were not very happy with my choice of a wife. My best friend always told me "You can do better" Mom was always drunk but did not approve. No one liked her. Well, after 41 years of marriage we are still together through it all. In many cultures marrying someone who your family does not approve of is very hard. I think the best thing you could do is to show your family that you really love this woman and want to spend the rest of your lives together. She also needs to try and prove her worthiness by being the best person around your family as possible.

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