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    hee Posts: 16, Reputation: 1
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    Oct 30, 2008, 11:30 PM
    Boyfriend with new girl.how to face?
    Actually I was dumped 5 months ago... wht he told me that the reason was that we had no future due to different religion... but just after one month of our break up I saw him roming with some other girl...


    And now finally I noe that they both are going out... tht too the girl again is of same religion... I noe all this about him bcaz we are in same college and we have a bunch of common friends... and his new girlfriend too is in my collge... so its really sometimes difficult to see your ex everyday with someone else doing same things he use to do with me...


    I sometimes feel to take revench and call their parents and tel eevryhting at least they will have a breakp and I don't have to seee them together in college...


    But then I feel I shuld not do bcaz if I do then whts the difference between him and me...


    Finally I don't want him to be mine or so bcaz I would nt be able to trust him buttt I want him to realize his mistake and once in lifetime and say sorry to me...





    Help me how to face such situation
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    Oct 31, 2008, 12:25 AM

    Text talk is against the rules on this site, and if you notice, you can use spell check. As short of a read that was, it was hard to get through it, due to spelling errors. Leave this guy alone. Revenge is not going to get you anywhere. Move on to better things.
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    Oct 31, 2008, 07:44 AM
    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/...rl-272789.html

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating...rl-273701.html

    As you have been told before, move on with your life, and leave theirs alone.

    You don't need 3 threads for the same question either.

    If your still this wound up after 5 months, you have a BIG problem that needs to be dealt with, by some one QUALIFIED, like a counselor, before you get in serious trouble.
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    Oct 31, 2008, 08:02 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/...rl-272789.html

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating...rl-273701.html

    As you have been told before, move on with your life, and leave theirs alone.

    You don't need 3 threads for the same question either.

    If your still this wound up after 5 months, you have a BIG problem that needs to be dealt with, by some one QUALIFIED, like a counselor, before you get in serious trouble.
    I had to spread the rep Tal, but 5 months later, and still wanting some sort of revenge, because he is with someone else, is more than a little over the top. Do what Tal suggested 'Hee', and seek some help. You are putting too much energy into this. Your ex is allowed to date whomever he pleases. Like Tal said, if you carry on with this, you are only going to get into trouble, and you will be the one who everyone will look at as the phycho ex. and your ex is not going to be giving you any apologies. Get on with it! This serves no purpose. He's moved on, and you need to do the same.
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    Oct 31, 2008, 07:26 PM

    Wow I would hate to see what would happen if he cheated on you. And made you lose your house and kids...

    When all he did was dump you.

    I mean come on gril you can get past this. He used that as an easy way out.

    Learn to love yourself :) and try to be the bigger person in this have some self respect
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    Feb 21, 2009, 04:14 AM

    I think you should write in standard english...

    Advice: leave him alone, its over for a reason. Taking revange by getting a rebound will not help. It will only hurt the new guy because your intentions are not right. Seeing him with a new girl will hurt, but it shows that it is time to move on. Good luck
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    Feb 21, 2009, 06:52 AM

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    Time to leave him alone, and move on with your life. You have already wasted enough time on something you cannot change!
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    Feb 21, 2009, 07:17 AM

    Even if you revenge,u wn't see them in college but will u b able to make them stop meeting each other? nooo!! revnge is not a good thing to do.if he doesn't love you,why taking him into consideration?forget him... he do not fit you..

    Take care
    Bye

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