[baybeeG]

I was with my ex for 3 years it was both our longest relationship and we both said 2 each other that we were each others 1st love.
We were going through a rocky patch arguing over stupid things getting on each others nerves due 2 not giving each other enough space. During this bad patch we had an argument and broke up I left it and he came back saying he still loved me, then one night we both got drunk and had argument over something stupid and basically gave up
He got asked out by this other girl and he said yes. Within the 1st week of going out they both cheated on each other but stayed together and since he has cheated on her again. I use 2 hang around his area because we both have friends there. I didn't come down after the break up until one day about 3 months after breaking up and he saw me he had had 6 cans which doesn't get him drunk and that night he started flirting with me, holding my hand trying to kiss me and he even told me he still loved me. This while he was still with his new girlfriend. The next day he txted me and said sorry about the other night he didn't mean it he was drunk but a couple days later I came down and he was drunk and he did the same.

I Didn't go down his area for 2 months after that, this meaning him and his new girlfriend have been together nearly 5 months but the one day I came down he was really nice to me acting like my friend which I was surprised I thought we wasn't mates. That night there was a few of us out even his girlfriend and all night I ignored him talked 2 every else laughing and I kept seeing him looking at me out the corner of my eye. After his girlfriend had gone in he offered me a can a fag and started talking to me more and he stopped 2 talk 2 his friend while the rest of us carried on walking, he didn't come back bt after half hour I went in and that night he txted me saying ''wot you up2 tb'' and then ''do you want come 2 mine tb '' and then '' don't txbk then'' by the way he had 5 cans.
Anyway I didn't see him until a week after this and it was at a local carnival he talked to me and that but then I went.
But do you think he still has feelings for me??
Everytym we see each other summit happens

His sister andi still keep in contact and she reckons we will get bk together
And so do other people

[JBeaucaire]

I know this example is over the top, but I can't think of a way to shake you any stronger than this.

Girl 1: "So, isn't your new boyfriend the guy that killed his parents, burned down the house, blamed it on his priest, got caught anyway, then dated and killed his lawyer during the trial?"

Girl 2: "Yes, but I really love him."

I guess I don't understand why you ask "Does he still have feelings for me." In your story you CLEARLY see him as a bad match for you overall AND he CLEARLY has no inhibitions against cheating on girlfriends. He has even CLEARLY courted YOU while he had another girlfriend.

So, who care if he likes you or not, right? I mean... who cares?

You and his sister are in agreement you'll get back together? Seriously? Why in the world? I'm paying attention TO WHO THE GUY HE IS... which is based on his character, which is based on his ACTIONS. You're not?

Girl 2: "Yeah, but I really love him." Is this who YOU are?

Think about it. Most people choose their own hell. Is this the hell you want to live... dating Mr. Impossible Unfaithful in a World of Insecurity? I certainly hope not.

[talaniman]

but do you think he still has feelings for me??

Of course he does, and they get stronger after a few beers.

everytym we see each other summit happens

Every time you see him he has a few beers in him.

Get a guy who likes you without the beers, and doesn't have a g/f to cheat on.