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    magrock Posts: 70, Reputation: 2
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    Sep 29, 2008, 12:58 PM
    Is something wrong w/me?
    After a summer of ups & downs... I finally met a nice guy who seems to have good intentions... he has all the great qualities I want in a man & he is put together. We have a great time together but I don't want to jump his bones. It has now been our 5th date & we have kissed but no tongue. I get shy & end the kiss before it leads to something else.is that OK? I mean the last guy we had such great sexual chemistry but it lead to nothing... the new guy knows I want to take this things slow & do not want to sleep w/him right away. I sometimes questioned if I was attracted to him & I am but not in a way I have felt for other guys however those relationships never got far either... am I just attracted to guys who are not available to me? Can I eventually feel "wild & sexual" w/the new guy?
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    Sep 29, 2008, 01:35 PM

    Don't have sex for at least 6 months, and see what happens. Then you may have your own answer. Enjoy the dating, but leave the sex out of it.
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    Sep 29, 2008, 01:38 PM

    Thank you I needed to hear this... because that's what I plan to do... there is no pressure now... when I feel an intense attraction to someone it rarely ever works out. There is something more than just attraction w/this guy...
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