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    geneva7 Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Sep 9, 2008, 11:53 PM
    Cant orgasm.
    Hi there everyone, I need help. I am 19 years old and have been sexually active for three years. The only way I can orgasm is in the shower with total clitoral stimulation. I have really good satisfying sex and my partner and I have tried multiple things to get me off, but we can't do it. I don't even feel like I can get close to having an orgasm. My favorite part of foreplay is him fingering me but he can't even get me off doing that. Does anyone have any suggestions for me on how I could get off ( positions, techniques, whatever you got... ) I'm starting to get really discouraged, and I feel like there is something wrong with me.
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    Choux Posts: 3,047, Reputation: 376
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    Sep 10, 2008, 10:15 AM
    You need to activate your brain, turn yourself into a sexual being, so that you become passionate and responsive when you are with a partner.

    Be mind and then all body passionate! You have come to know what an orgasm is like through masturbation, be careful you don't become a masturbation addict. Extend your sexuality past self-stimulation. Develop your body so it feeds your mind . Take up sports.

    Sex with a partner is different from self-pleasuring. You can't think about how you look when you are having orgasmic sex. :)

    Best wishes,
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