Read this recent thread... this person can't get off at all, but there are some tie ins.
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-...tml#post906239
Also, read the book I mention.
By the way... my partner needs cl!toral stim to get off. G spot, which is really just another area of the cl!toral complex, doesn't do it. Feels good, but in the end, the cl!t is it. Often this means self stim during intercourse. Its not uncommon at all.
Now... some can get to orgasm through completely other stim. Very lucky women have reported reaching orgasm over things such as having their eyebrows stroked (it feels really good if you get it done) or ears nibbled.
Read the post I attached.
And ask yourself... are you completely in the moment mentally? Do you feel you have the time to spend and not rush? Even then... most womn respond well to cl!toral stim... its why oral is often favored over intercourse and the tongue is mightier than the sword in most cases.
Take a look and then post back here with your thoughts.