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Aug 24, 2008, 01:07 PM
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My biological father
I've never ever met my real father, and I have no information about him. I really want to find him.. but my mum won't tell me his name.. all I know is he was a 'boyfriend' which I don't even know if that's true or she won't tell me cause he was a one night stand.. I really want to find him but I don't know how.. and its driving me crazy... anyone know anyway I can trace someone without information about him... please tell me.. :(
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Aug 24, 2008, 01:19 PM
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![Quote](custom/vgo/images/misc/quote_icon.png) Originally Posted by sophie101
I've never ever met my real father, and i have no information about him. i really want to find him.. but my mum wont tell me his name.. all i know is he was a 'boyfriend' which i dont even know if thats true or she wont tell me cause he was a one night stand.. i really want to find him but i dont know how.. and its driving me crazy... anyone know anyway i can trace someone without information about him... please tell me.. :(
No, you can't trace someone without a name. Your only hope - and I don't know your age - would be to hire someone to go into your mother's background, where she lived, where she worked, asked questions, see what turns up.
Who is your father on your birth certificate?
It's very expensive but I've seen it work.
Otherwise without a name there is no chance.
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Aug 24, 2008, 01:23 PM
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![Quote](custom/vgo/images/misc/quote_icon.png) Originally Posted by JudyKayTee
No, you can't trace someone without a name. Your only hope - and I don't know your age - would be to hire someone to go into your mother's background, where she lived, where she worked, asked questions, see what turns up.
Who is your father on your birth certificate?
It's very expensive but I've seen it work.
Otherwise without a name there is no chance.
On my birth certificate is my dad I live with now... I don't get it.
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Aug 24, 2008, 02:49 PM
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![Quote](custom/vgo/images/misc/quote_icon.png) Originally Posted by sophie101
on my birth certificate is my dad i live with now... i dont get it.
What don't you "get?" Don't you understand why no one can find someone without having some information - a name, a date of birth?
Or don't you understand why someone not your biological father is on your birth certificate?
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Aug 25, 2008, 03:14 AM
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![Quote](custom/vgo/images/misc/quote_icon.png) Originally Posted by JudyKayTee
What don't you "get?" Don't you understand why no one can find someone without having some information - a name, a date of birth?
Or don't you understand why someone not your biological father is on your birth certificate?
Yeahh the last one..
I mean I thought you had to have you mother and fathers name on your irth certificate.. on my originalone.. there's no fathers name.. and on another one its my dads name..
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Aug 25, 2008, 06:23 AM
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![Quote](custom/vgo/images/misc/quote_icon.png) Originally Posted by sophie101
Yeahh the last one..
i mean i thought you had to have you mother and fathers name on your irth certificate.. on my originalone.. theres no fathers name.. and on another one its my dads name..
So there was no alleged or acknowledged biological father when you were born and through an adoption or legal process your "current" father's name was added at a later date. Not uncommon.
So that's a dead end -
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Sep 13, 2008, 11:34 AM
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I never met my real father either, because my mom divoured him, but there is nothing holding you back from seeing your dad. So why don't you convince your mom to let you see your dad and see what she say. KEEP ASKING HER!!
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Sep 13, 2008, 11:45 AM
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![Quote](custom/vgo/images/misc/quote_icon.png) Originally Posted by ilovedaddy21
so why don't you convince your mom to let you see your dad and see what she say. KEEP ASKING HER!!!!
I completely disagree with this statement. It is apparent the mother does not want to talk about it. It was most likely a time in her life that she chooses not to relive, and to continue to ask her will only create animosity in the family.
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Sep 14, 2008, 03:44 PM
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This is a very unfortunate situation for you. I agree that this is information only your mother and possibly the only father you've known have information on. Possibly later in years things maybe explained to you in detail. What is hard to understand is, why this issue was brought up? What I mean is, unless I am at the point where I have resolved the circumstances of the pregnancy within myself, there would be no reason to throw it up in conversation with you.
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Jun 18, 2009, 08:21 PM
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![Quote](custom/vgo/images/misc/quote_icon.png) Originally Posted by sophie101
I've never ever met my real father, and i have no information about him. i really want to find him.. but my mum wont tell me his name.. all i know is he was a 'boyfriend' which i dont even know if thats true or she wont tell me cause he was a one night stand.. i really want to find him but i dont know how.. and its driving me crazy... anyone know anyway i can trace someone without information about him... please tell me.. :(
I know how you feel! I know nothing about my biological father.. not a name or anything.. my original birth certificate said "unknow" in the father section!
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Jun 19, 2009, 06:37 AM
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![Quote](custom/vgo/images/misc/quote_icon.png) Originally Posted by shortyshorty
I know how you feel! I know nothing about my biological father..not a name or anything..my original birth certificate said "unknow" in the father section!!
Old thread - should be closed.
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