[Gurlygirl2]

I have been with my boyfriend for 16 months
He is a year older than me
I am Extremely confused and need anybodies help in what to do

My relationship with my boyfriend has not been as easy as I would expect we met on an internet chat room and people obviously was no happy with the decisions and the way it happened so straight from day one we have had problems with other people surrounded by our relationship.

It escalated an my mother did not like I'm one tiny bit but would be nice to him for my sake only because she could see I really liked him I had a group of friends which turned on him then on me which now I have lost because of him but not really bothered because they showed there true colours in the end and who they really are.

We started to argue 4 months into the relationship thought nothing of it though it was just normal everyday thing that occur in a relationship it seemed to get worse then 2 months later on down the line we had a break because he searched my phone and found a number he did not know when it was actually my friends new number he accused me of cheating so I extremely angry and told I'm I wanted a break I did not want 2 break up straight way because we had talked for a year on the internet before actually meeting up and we thought we knew everything about each and loved each other as well when we didn't at all.

Wen we I had made my mind up and decided to get back with him it got worse again we had the occasionally row but instead of rowing all the time he would control me and it had happened from the break in August 07 2 July 08 n my friend and kept on telling me what he was like and I could sometimes see it but just did not want 2 believe it but most of the time I could not see it happening to me but my friends could and found it frustrating and fell out with my boyfriend but she still stayed by my side.

I started to see what he was doing towards the start of this month and I thought long and hard for weeks on what to do and the only solution I came up with was to ask I'm 4 3 days space no contact to sort my head he was so controlling he couldn't even do that so I decided to call it day because he cudn't even give me my space that I had asked for I had 2 meet I'm in town the next 2 had back his cd he lent me he tried to apologize and say sorry and that he loves me and he can't live without me I told I'm to leave me alone and not 2 contact me he ignored me so in the end after countless texts and phone calls I contacted I'm n he just said the same things again so I told I'm 2 stop it but guess what he still never listened so he used my myspace 2 get through me that way because I blocked I'm off my fone so he couldn't get in touch and he started to say things about when we first met and when we used 2 speak online and he has made me confused and not really sure if I should give up the relationship just yet I just need help anybody at all please help me am so confused thanks x

[talaniman]

Sorry for your loss, but think you have done the right thing for you, as you haven't been having much fun it sounds like. If you block him from contacting you from the net, he will be unable to keep those old feelings stirred up, and you can move on.