[jeffatl]

Ok, HAHAHAHA! As a lot of you know I have been talking to this girl for a while now. She doesn't live here, so I'm not thinking of any type of relationship now, but something kind of funny happened a few min ago... She called me last night and we talked for about 30min and she was going out with some friends. She said she missed me bla bla bla. Well, today she tells me all about how she hung out with this "beautiful GIRL she likes"... :confused: She told me they made out all night and went back to her place, but nothing happened. LOL. Im like "cool". I have no problem with the whole BI thing, but Im wondering why she told me this. It doesn't make much sense. I know she likes guys too, but is this her way of telling me she BI to see how I react, or is she trying to make me miss her? I don't get women at all sometimes. I have been sitting in my room trying to study for the past hour, but just keep laughing over all the stuff I have been through over the past 8 months. WOWSERS, I am going to write a book. I wish I could make all this stuff up guys. :p

[fredg]

Hi, Jeff,
I wouldn't be concerned with this what this girl says. I really don't think she has any idea why she called you, unless she knows you will talk with her, when possibly, not too many others will!
Best of luck.

[Krs]

I think she is an attention seeker.

[milliec]

Well Jeff,
You've been talking for a long time - she sees you as a guy she can share with, she feels she can talk to you, that you listen, that you're there. I see it as a compliment - but she probably didn't regard you in a romantic way. Don't be offended, maybe her interest in guys is for a different reason from what you think it is. She was probably excited and just wanted to share things with someone she regards as a very close, sensitive, and trustworthy person.
Good luck,everyone deserves it, and you sound like someone who really does.
Millie:)

[frezzy03]

Yeah I think I agree with milliec she could just want to say s'mthing to someone and she thinks u're the right person for that,I think if she likes you as a couple she won't say that but we can't be too sure anywayz so see what her next call will be about.

[jeffatl]

I get you Frezzy. The weird thing is, we talk all the time and she says stuff like "i miss you so much" and "if I was there i would love to be with you". We have had a thing for each other for a LONG time. Im not really looking for a relationship right now anyway, but this really threw me off. I know she has pretty much always been BI, and I know she likes me in a romantic way, unless she was lying when she told me she did. I just don't know what to think of this right now. When she told me she asked "this doesnt freak you out does it?" I just laughed and told her "you are a big girl, you can do what you want, it doens freak me out at all!". The fact is, it doesn't. Im just starting to think she is kind of running my way when she needs a little perk up, wich is cool and all, but I don't want to be thinking the wrong thing... you know? She texts me pretty much with stuff like "hope you are having a great day baby!" and "I miss you!". So there HAS to be more to it than just friends, unless I am totally missing the ball here.

[Krs]

And how would u define this "thing" there is between you? What is it?

[jeffatl]

I don't know really LOL! We have liked each other for a long time. We liked each other, but were involved at the time. She told me she liked me recently as well. It doesn't matter really though I guess. I think she is a great person, and I think the best thing for us for now is friends. Unless she comes back here, or I move out there, nothing will happen. Wow, I guess I just cleared up a lot of stuff for myself then huh?

[Krs]

I think so. Do u 2 have some kind of history?

[jeffatl]

No, but its like we have an "almost history". We have been buddies for a while, then one of her friends told me she really liked me a lot, but I was involved. Now we are both single, but too far away from each other. Oh well, friends for now won't hurt. If things go from there, they do...

[Krs]

Exactly, it seems to me that u know the score, you know where u stand with her. I mean being far away from each other won't help and you can't really start a relationship. If in the near future you your close by her then things can be taken further then. Just keep contact with her :) Good Luck

[jeffatl]

"You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to Krs again." thanks for the insight!

[Krs]

What does that really mean Jeffatl?

[jeffatl]

It means that you are giving me some great insight, and I am trying to reward you for it, but can't right now because I already gave you some rep a few days ago.

[Krs]

Thank you very much jeffatl, where ever I can help I'm always happy to give the best I can :)

[talaniman]

Hi jeff You've been around the block so I know you won't repeat any past mistakes and I'm waiting for the book to come out luck my friend!:cool: :)