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sad xxx siren · Jun 14, 2008, 05:59 PM

About 2 years ago me and my boyfriend had a very public very messy break up. There were rumors he had been cheating on me with a girl that I did not consider a threat but I did not think them try we discussed it an he lied and said I was the only one for him. Then about 2 weeks. Later he stopped answering my phone calls and with out even so much as a call cut me out of his life his blog sites all switched from relationship to single, and to justify his actions he made up so me stupid story and spread it in our circle. Needless to say I did what any girl would do cried blogged about it and cut him off totally till he showed up in person and showed me how sorry he was... well I forgave him BUT I DID NOT FORGET WHAT HE DID we became friends but could not date again and were forced to hang in secret due to feuding clicks. Even though he wanted to start again I was scared and then finally I was over him, it had ben months since I thought of him and when I saw him I felt nothing I did not cry any more and thought I was ready to move on but now the slightest thing triggers a memory I think of him all the time... and even though I knew I loved him and he broke my hart (i never told him he never told me) its plain to see I am not over him and he says he's not over me... but even though I want to kiss him so much when ever I see him I do not because of pride what will my friends think? Will they think I'm stupid and dose that matter? Am I being stupid? Can this ever work out? Am I setting myself up for loneliness once he leaves me and my friends stop hangging around me? should i tell him i love him and put my hart on the line even though it might cost me my rep. my friends and my happiness????? or should I give in and accept that we will never be together again?:( :confused:

taytortot · Jun 15, 2008, 11:38 AM

don't go out with hhim again he hurt you!! He will do it again guys don't change they don't if you want to get hurt again just go out with him but I wouldn't my x did that me a billion times and I still went back and I got hurt!! I know its hard because its this guy u <3 but just be friends nothing else!! Try to get over him that's the best thing you should do

--tay:)

talaniman · Jun 15, 2008, 03:54 PM

Keep your dignity, and self respect.

sokay · Jun 15, 2008, 11:08 PM

Originally Posted by sad xxx siren

about 2 years ago me and my boyfriend had a very public very messy break up. There were rumors he had been cheating on me with a girl that i did not consider a threat but i did not think them try we discussed it an he lied and said i was the only one for him. Then about 2 wks. later he stopped answering my phone calls and with out even so much as a call cut me out of his life his blog sites all switched from relationship to single, and to justify his actions he made up so me stupid story and spread it in our circle. needless to say i did what any girl would do cried blogged about it and cut him off totally till he showed up in person and showed me how sorry he was.....well i forgave him BUT I DID NOT FORGET WHAT HE DID we became friends but could not date again and were forced to hang in secret due to feuding clicks. even though he wanted to start again i was scared and then finally i was over him, it had ben months since i thought of him and when i saw him i felt nothing i did not cry any more and thought i was ready to move on but now the slightest thing triggers a memory i think of him all the time....and even though i knew i loved him and he broke my hart (i never told him he never told me) its plain to see i am not over him and he says he's not over me....but even though i want to kiss him so much when ever i see him i do not because of pride what will my friends think? will they think i'm stupid and dose that matter? am i being stupid? can this ever work out? am i setting my self up for loneliness once he leaves me and my friends stop hangging around me? should i tell him i love him and put my hart on the line even though it might cost me my rep. my friends and my happiness????? or should i give in and accept that we will never be together again?:( :confused:

Wait... are you Beyonce?

sad xxx siren · Jun 16, 2008, 11:22 AM

Originally Posted by sokay

Wait...are you Beyonce?

Umm... why would u ask that?

sylvan_1998 · Jun 16, 2008, 01:17 PM

I say put it out there and see what happens. Then you will never have what ifs. I suffer from these and they are terrible. But remember all these people have valid concerns. You did break up for a reason. The first time was shame on him. This time it will be shame on you... are you willing to have that egg in your face?