[shanna_tigger]

I really like my x best friends boyfriend.I already know its wrong but I can't help it.I just do.and I think about him a lot.:( I just don't know what to do.what do I do?:( :confused:

[JBeaucaire]

It's NOT wrong to like someone, ANYONE. Stop saying that to yourself, stop putting that pressure on other people in the future. Everyone is free to like whomever they are naturally attracted to. There is nothing wrong with it. These are just feelings.

There's also nothing wrong with informing people you are interested in, even if they are currently IN a relationship. Expressing your availability is also perfectly fine. This is just talk.

The only thing that is WRONG is dating someone else's b/f or husband. Now THAT'S a no-no... but look how far we had to go to get here.

Don't be a cheater, don't engage in cheating behavior, and don't lure others into cheating behavior. But when they are free from their current situation, they know to look you up, not until then.

Outside of that, clear communication to others about your intent and availability is, at its core, perfectly fine. People putting rules on you to the contrary are just fooling themselves.