[walker2323]

I was dateing a girl for 3 years and she never dumped me we were getting along fine and there were no problems she then went out and made out with a guy she dumped me the next morning I asked her why and she said it just happened she was drunk then she said she didn't know if she wanted to be with me that there was another guy then she told me that she just said that because she need space cause she didn't know what she wants then one night we were talking getting along and I told here that I didn't know if she was ever going to get back with me and she said since this happened I noticed you been listening more but then we got in a fight and she's mad at me and said there was another guy but that she won't be with him cause its her frieands ex then she said I don't know I'm just mad give me time to calm down and she will call me in a couple days I don't know what she wants but I know I love here but she has never done things like this but we had a miscarrige and I was so lost that I wasn't there for it when it happened and I took her to doctors appontments and stayd the night but she said she said the other day look what I had to go through alone which is bad but I was lost so is she just mad still even though the miscarrige was 2 monthes ago or is that why she's leaving cause she said she made up the one guy so I would leave her alone she sounds confused but does she love me

[justcurious55]

I would do what she says and give her some space. Make it clear that you're willing to wait for her for however long it is ou're willing to, and that she can call you anytime. But leave her alone for now. It sounds like she really doesn't have any idead what she wants and she robably doesn't even know if she loves you. A little time alone might help her figure it out.