[pinkygirl]

Hi I am aishu

I saw a guy in my friends apartment he is really very cute and I like him so much but he is a 24 year old guy and I am 13 I love him very much I don't know how to express will he suit for me or is he worth it .please help me

[Greg Quinn]

You are too young for a guy that age. He could get into a lot of trouble hooking up with you. You said " I saw a guy" then you said "I love him very much" That sounds like a 13 year old with a crush. Be careful! 24 year olds have sex, they get into relationships where sex is possible. That would be a stiff prison term for this guy, so if you really like him... Stay away. You are hanging out with friends that have their own apartments?

[Kati-Katt]

Okay I'm saying this out of personal experience... I was 12 and had a crush on a 20 year old who had a crush on me back. It was not good at all... I kissed him 3 times and I thought I loved him... I was actually determined to tha fact that I lved him, but now that I look on it I was going through phases, I didden't want to admit that I was at loss of affection and I wished I had it and when I mean it I mean the real thing... and I didden't realize what I had before my eyes. I just turned 14 on May 8th 2008... not too long ago... Maybe you have a close guy friend or somehing or a quieter guy in class who likes you, maybe you don't even know he exists barely.. or even at all but there is always someone there who loves you. But I know what your thinking, the guy I like is not like those other creeps that are that old who go around touching children... but if he likes you back then you've got a problem. I has a guy friend who was 23 and he liked me and he pushed me down on the couch by force and kissed me, ten he invited me to the bleachers behind my future school to innapropreately touch me. I'm not exactly sure how but I got out of it. He might not even like you that way, but if he ever does I know for a fact he'll try things with you. Men are like that a lot of the time, they love the idea of spoiling someone else's virginity or going places no one else has been yet. Don't get raped... even if that is not to the littlest of his intentions... just don't do it. You'll regret it later on believe me. You don't have to trust me, you don't even know me... Why would you trust me? I could have not said this, I could have not warned you and let you take the fall for it but no.. I don't want it to happen to anyone else. I haven't been raped but my sister has. She's never been the same since... it's not a goodthing either. Just think about it okayy? Be careful... Don't get too close like I did it messed up my life a lot.

[amberlynn]

WOOOOOOOOOW


No no no no

NOOOO WAY
Don't even consider that.
You're 13? He's 24.

That is a huge difference
That's so crazy because when I was 13,
[15 now]
I had a crush on a 24 year old named Trent.
Hahahaha wow was I dumb.you will get over him
And find another one and another one.
You're thirteen.so at this point
You have NOOOO idea what love even is.
IPROMISE you.
It is so much greater than seeing a "cute" guy.
SOOOO much greater.

Sure he's cute.
But don't go for him,
You'll get him arrested.

[JBeaucaire]

It's not appropriate that you respond to the feelings you're having in any way. It's not good for you, for him, it's not legal, both of your lives will suffer in the near term, and if you're not VERY careful, you could get him thrown in jail and branded and a child molester for the rest of his life.

Is that the way you show love? No, it's not.

Enjoy your passion for him, you'll feel that way many, many times in life, but keep it to yourself. Restraint is one of the first adult lessons you need to acquire to go with these feelings. Work on that right now since you can't safely express these feelings, this way they will at least do you some good as you learn how to control yourself.

[Fr_Chuck]

Well if you really love him, you show it by never telling him for about another 5 years. Siince by showing it, you will send him to prison, have him registed as a sex offender for the rest of his life, and fairly well mess your life up for years