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delcena · Mar 22, 2008, 06:13 PM

I can get over the fact that I am yonger than him and he does not want sex with me I am his 4th wife and he drinks a 12 pack a day in the mean time I am drinking a liter of vodka a week because I am so un happy.

ChihuahuaMomma · Mar 22, 2008, 06:28 PM

It sounds like the two of you need marriage counseling and addiction counseling.

If you can't get over the age difference was the marriage a good idea?

Fr_Chuck · Mar 22, 2008, 06:34 PM

I have moved your post from the introduction area to a area better for your question. Please return to the introductoin and introduce yourself.

How old is he, 14 years older if you are 18 is not a real big deal in age, if he is over 50, it is not uncommom to have some performance issues, have you discussed this with him. Plus if he is drinking heavy, many men can not perform at all after they get very drunk.

Choux · Mar 23, 2008, 12:29 PM

Do you think he is impotent from all the beer he is drinking?

Synnen · Mar 23, 2008, 01:42 PM

Your biggest problem right now is alcoholism, not sex.

You BOTH need to get into a 12 step program.

Maybe when you're both yourselves again, you can learn to communicate your needs to each other.

However, when you're both altered, no honest communication is going on.

PS--alcohol is a depressant. It's not going to help you feel less unhappy about the situation.