[munda828]

So I started kind of hanging out with this guy that I go to school with. It all started with our teacher making us a married couple for a scenario. And then that night at the bar we were joking around about we were husband and wife and really hit it off definitely sparks. Then couple nites after he phoned my roommate matt and told him to come over and bring me. So we went over there and flirted a bunch more and went out once again and had some fun and then he came back to my place and we started watching a movie and were talking a lot about a bunch of different things but I didn't want to make out with him because I have a rep of hooking up with a lot of guys and I really liked him so I wanted to take things slow. We spent the night together and kissed quite a bit but never went further than that. Then in the morning I went bak to his place and hung out all day and it was really good not awkward at all and was amazing. Then he went to work and I spent another night with him and kissed but still didn't go any further. Well Monday morning comes along and he is awkward, not talking to me and just kidna brushing me off. I put some effort into talking to him and texted him little things once and a while but he didn't respond bak at all. I still see him in two of my classes. But I don't know how to act because I really like him. Only ting I could think of was that maybe he had talked to some of the other guys that I hooked up with and they told him which turned him off me but as far as I know they didn't. I don't know what I did wrong this time it was going so good so I was just wondering your opinion about the stiuation! Thanks :)

[chuff]

i have a rep of hooking up with alot of guys and i really liked him so i wanted to take things slow.

That literally makes no sense to me. I'm only telling you this as a guy, but I once dated a girl who told me about several one night stands she had and then wouldn't go let me even touch her. That interested lasted about two weeks because what is the point of getting involved emotionally with someone when they pull a double standard on you. Probably sounds a bit harsh but it's the way I see it, and I'd bet that's what he was thinking.

[talaniman]

On one hand, he thought you were hanging out to hook up, so when you didn't, it came across as teasing him. On the other hand, he hasn't a clue to your real motives, and it seems as though your teasing him. Come clean, and be honest, or leave the guy alone. Talk to him so he doesn't assume your just about fun and games at his expense.