[loyal202]

Ok I did a dum thing.I met this guy through my mom.Anyway he was with someone at the time. After a couple of months I found out he broke up with his girlfriend. I was scared to contact him because I thought he might say something to his mom.You know meeting someone through family you feel weird. I contacted him in away that he didn't know who I was.After awhile he was upset that I contacted him this way.He also thought I did something else to him which I did not do. Anyway there is a upcoming event that I might see him. I wanted to clear the air with him. Explain to him what really happened.I feel if I don't I will regret it. What should I do. I know he is back with his girlfriend again.I just want to explain myself to him what really happened. I repsect that he has a girlfriend even they have been going on and off for ten years.

[N0help4u]

Especially now that he is back with his girlfriend I would just go to the event and ignore him.
Stay with others, don't look his way, don't try to talk to him, pretend he isn't even there and have a good time.
You botched something up contacting him and with his girlfriend in the pic you trying to communicate with him again can only botch it up even worse cause he could feel you are trying to break them up, if she happened to be the one that got his message from you he would be hating you even more.

[talaniman]

Let it go, and that's what I told someone else, who was interested in a family friend, that is in a 10 year relationship. Your need to explain and clear the air maybe interpreted the wrong way, and then there will be even more bad feelings. Not worth the risk.

[talaniman]

N0help4u agrees: and we didn't even mention how clearing the air would only be for her own conscience since he isn't even interested

Lol, That greenie deserves a greenie. He probably hasn't given it a second thought.