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    alattimo Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Mar 13, 2008, 09:01 PM
    I can orgasm by oral sex but not by sexual intercourse
    I'm 21 and me and my boyfriend have been together for 2yrs and I was a virgin when I met him... the sex is great and I can climax while he is giving me oral sex,but when it comes to actual intercourse, its seems that I can never climax. I orgasm during intercourse but can never actually CLIMAX. Can anyone help me
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    Mar 13, 2008, 09:12 PM
    An orgasm and a climax are the same darn thing.

    What the heck are you talking about?

    And honey--MOST women don't have orgasms from intercourse, most of the time. Our bodies just aren't built for it, really. Your clitoris is where you are most sensitive--so of course you're going to have an easier time attaining orgasms from oral than from intercourse--when during intercourse is your clitoris really stimulated?

    How old ARE you, anyway?
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    Mar 14, 2008, 09:06 AM
    With the right position you can learn to have one... its not as easy, and what it takes won't be the same for any two women. Trust me in that my wife can about 90% of the time now. That wasn't always true. She learned her own body and we found what works well for us. You just have to do the same. Just keep up the faith that it is possible.
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    Mar 14, 2008, 11:40 PM
    All women are different. MOST women climax/orgasm with clittoral stimulation; such as oral sex or using hands... But some don't. I can't orgasm by oral sex. I can only orgasm with intercourse. It's weird. Every woman is built different and has differetn sensations with different positions. Did I take it home with the word "different?" Some women feel like they have to pee when they receive oral sex; on the other hand, some women LOVE oral sex and can orgasm. SOOO Enjoy what you got! ;)

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