[schwartzyms]

Hi me and my girlfriend of 2 months just broke up

She just broke up with me because she said that she really needs to focus on her schoolwork and that she doesn't feel the same about me anymore

I was starting to feel the same way to... she had gotten in trouble and lost her phone and computer for a couple days and without her there I felt single again and I didn't like it, but I was starting to realize that maybe I didn't feel the same anymore but I didn't know so I never said anything.

I would appreciate any help that you guys could possibly give me... thank you!!

She happens to be in my 2nd period class and I'd sit next to her every class, she said that I can still do that, but to me, it would feel weird, plus I don't fit in with that class... im an athlete and I'm not into drama, but luckily I had her to help me through it, but I no longer do.

The thing is, I'm sad over this, but not "crazy" sad. I miss her more than anything

[kp2171]

Sorry man, but it happens. Over and over.

But its worth all the noise... each time something goes "wrong" you figure out what to do to make it right... or sometimes you just figure out that it was fun for a bit, and then its done. And sometimes you just leave with emotional baggage and a need to punch a wall.

Id say "sorry it happened"... but I'm not going to. Cause it happens. You learn to roll with it as best you can. Some crashed are worse than others.

Time to tuck and roll, buddy.

[schwartzyms]

I don't quite understand you answer... I understand the "sorry man, but it happens. over and over."

I'm only 15 so I'm not to great at understanding certain things

[TrueFaith]

What Kp means.. is.. You live and you learn


So this will get you ready for more things later to come, I would say 2 months is a very very short relationship so you should just put it down to fun and move on ;)

[schwartzyms]

It may have been short, but wow, it really was a lot of fun and I really miss her... but I guess I'm going to have to move on... like you've said

[friend4u178]

Hi schwartz

I would go back and read your thread from November , it all gets better with time my friend as you found out last time.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...er-153010.html

[schwartzyms]

Yea, I know... this one is different though... this girl I can actually see... the one from my other thread I couldn't see, she lived 1200 miles away... this girl only lives like 2 miles away and goes to my school and is in my 2nd period..

[talaniman]

It all part of learning to cope, with our own feeling, in a positive responsible way. Look around and after a while your focus will change. You will notice others in due time.

[schwartzyms]

Yea, I'm pretty much over her know, like I really don't have feelings for her anymore, I just miss her presence in my life... but it's time to move on and as you just stated, sooner or later I will notice others

[schwartzyms]

Thanks for your advice, I can count on this forum for pretty much everything!!


Thanks a lot!!