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aarvee82 · Feb 27, 2008, 05:47 PM

I am 25yrs old and married for last three yrs. Earlier we were using contraceptives(condoms). But now we both want to have a baby and we are trying from couple of months but not yet succeeded. :((
I never consumed any pills and my periods are always on time, perfect 28 days cycle.

Why m not getting pregnant? Is everything all right with me? Should I go to see doctor for the same?

Please HELP

tickle · Feb 27, 2008, 05:52 PM

Could be you are both too anxious and trying to hard to conceive. Try to relax, go away for a weekend and just lay about, get to know all over again what each other likes to do. You could go to a doctor for a check up and advice if that would make you feel better but your time will come.

J_9 · Feb 27, 2008, 06:45 PM

I would like to repeat Tickle's sentiments. Also, understand that it takes most healthy couples up to a year of actively trying to become pregnant. The stress of trying can actually cause you NOT to become pregnant.

Take your time, enjoy the ride.

P.S. Make sure you are taking a vitamin that contains folic acid now. Should you become pregnant, this helps prevent neural tube defects that happen most of the time before a woman even knows she is pregnant.

biggsie · Feb 27, 2008, 07:03 PM

From this forum Dr. Phil.com - Messageboards - Getting Pregnant

You've only been trying for 2 months to me that's not long at all so don't go worrying yourself too much about this. It will happen when it is suppose to happen, believe me.

My hubby had a very low sperm count and he had been told many years ago that it would be very unlikely that he would ever be able to father any children. So we just got on with life and we did try on and off for many years to have a baby but nothing happened, but also we were trying too hard at times, so much so that we were not having any fun anymore.

So, we stopped trying and just got back to enjoying each other and getting on with our lives, thinking that it was just going to be the two of us. And that was never going to be a problem for us, cause we didn't get married all those years ago to just have babies we got married because we wanted to be together for the rest of our lives.

Anyway, one day out of the blue we did get pregnant and now we have a beautiful 3 year old daughter, Stephanie. To us she is our Beautiful Gift from God. We have been truly blessed.

So, all I can say to you is to stop trying and go back to enjoying your time with your hubby and just let nature take care of it's self. And if you are healthy then it will happen. And please relax and don't worry. Hope this has helped in some way, please TAKE CARE