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    anabel46 Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Feb 25, 2008, 11:51 AM
    Not being able to have an orgasm at all.
    HI, I have been having trouble having an orgasm for the past three month's. My partner has tried everything, oral and fingers and still nothing. I do get satisfied I get to the point were you feel you are going to blow up, but I just don't finish. Please help, thank you.
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    Feb 25, 2008, 01:37 PM
    Try working yourself up to that "about to blow" point a couple times... then try it again right after.. I think if you "get up there" then come back "down" 2 or 3 times in a row, you should be able to orgasm...

    Have to tried fourplay first, or maybe warming up with a erotic movie?
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    Feb 25, 2008, 01:39 PM
    I have read that women have to "get to that point" a couple times first to get "warmed up" so to speak, and then they orgasm.. but you have to get worked up to that point and it could be... where your almost there like 5 times, and nothing and then maybe after 5 or 6 "Almost theres" you might go...

    Does this help at all?
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    Feb 25, 2008, 04:03 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by FVF
    i have read that women have to "get to that point" a couple times first to get "warmed up" so to speak, and then they orgasm.. but you have to get worked up to that point and it could be.... where your almost there like 5 times, and nothing and then maybe after 5 or 6 "Almost theres" you might go...

    does this help at all?
    Thank you very much for your answers, i haven't really counted them but it has been a couple of times were i get to that point and i just don't finish in that moment. We do fore play.
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    Apr 22, 2008, 01:40 PM
    I have that same problem
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    Apr 28, 2008, 10:40 AM
    As so I...
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    Apr 28, 2008, 11:01 AM
    You're stressing out trying to reach climax. Ironically enough, it's the stress that's keeping you from climax. Just relax, enjoy what's happening and take your time. There's no rush.

    Sometimes a little dirty talk is just what you need for that last step. Please the mind and the body will follow.

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