[pirate madi]

OK so my boyfriend ans I have fun together and stuff but while we are holding hands he won't talk to me he talks to all his friends and whenever he says bye he hugs me and stuff then just walks off without saying like I'll call you later or bye beautiful just like every girl wanst to hear... what do I do??

Should I tell him or not?:eek:

[simoneaugie]

Sure, tell him what you would like. Try one thing at a time. Use "I" statements and do not judge him. Listen if he wants to talk about it.

[Simple Asian]

Well... he might be still shy and unexperiment to deal with girls... may be he just doesn't no what to do yet... give him somtime... and talk to him... tell him what you want...

[onlinecounsellor_Dale]

People show that they like someone and express affection differently... it seems like you are looking for certain 'signs' from you boyfriend to reassure you of his feelings and because these signs aren't present, you are left worrying if he really likes you. Perhaps he expresses his feelings differently to you and you are looking for the wrong 'signs'? It is not uncommon for males (especially adolescent boys) to have difficulty expressing their feelings verbally, whereas females are generally (not always) more comfortable doing this. Keep an open mind to the possibility that your boyfriend may show his affection in ways differently to you (e.g. by doing things for you), and if necessary, tell him you feel a little unsure of his feelings at times (make sure you pick a good time for this discussion e.g. when you are both relaxed and his friends aren't around). Good Luck!