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    eyad1969 Posts: 14, Reputation: 0
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    Jan 25, 2008, 03:36 PM
    Can I corect my life
    Hello all
    There is something wrong in my life ,I am 39 years old now , every time I try I feel that I do wrong thing ,so I want you to advice me .
    I am from syria but I live now in saudi arabia cause work.
    I married with 4 kids 12 , 9 , 7 , 3.
    I am not happy with my wife and that from first day I get married.
    I was not free to get divorse cause I married her cause she was rich and I am from poor family , and I did that cause I wanted to help my family.
    Now I am married from 13 years and I help my family cause my wife is rich .
    But I feel bad really cause I am not happy, I know it is my fault and I am not moaning cause I did that .
    Some time I think to breake up but when I see that my kids will lost after that I stop .
    I never lived happy moment through 13 years .
    What I have to do ?
    Just complate my life like it is , or breake up ?
    All my thinking now my kids , I don't want hurt them for something I did .:rolleyes:
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    Jan 25, 2008, 03:55 PM
    Your children must know you are unhappy, your wife must know you are unhappy. I see you have two choices, you stay and you all become very miserable or you leave, be a friend to your wife and let your children see you happy. It is possible to start a new life, nothing too adventurous. Just plan to live a simple life. You deserve to feel happiness.
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    Jan 25, 2008, 04:01 PM
    Does your wife know you are unhappy?

    Are there things about your wife and/or your marriage that you like?
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    Jan 25, 2008, 04:04 PM
    My wife know that I am not happy but she didn't care .
    I can't just be friend cause I am not living in my country and if I divorse I have to leave to my country and the kids will stay with her .
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    Jan 25, 2008, 04:38 PM
    What solution do you imagine?
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    Jan 25, 2008, 04:40 PM
    Have you tried counseling to help the relationship?

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