Hello all
There is something wrong in my life ,I am 39 years old now , every time I try I feel that I do wrong thing ,so I want you to advice me .
I am from syria but I live now in saudi arabia cause work.
I married with 4 kids 12 , 9 , 7 , 3.
I am not happy with my wife and that from first day I get married.
I was not free to get divorse cause I married her cause she was rich and I am from poor family , and I did that cause I wanted to help my family.
Now I am married from 13 years and I help my family cause my wife is rich .
But I feel bad really cause I am not happy, I know it is my fault and I am not moaning cause I did that .
Some time I think to breake up but when I see that my kids will lost after that I stop .
I never lived happy moment through 13 years .
What I have to do ?
Just complate my life like it is , or breake up ?
All my thinking now my kids , I don't want hurt them for something I did .:rolleyes:

Your children must know you are unhappy, your wife must know you are unhappy. I see you have two choices, you stay and you all become very miserable or you leave, be a friend to your wife and let your children see you happy. It is possible to start a new life, nothing too adventurous. Just plan to live a simple life. You deserve to feel happiness.

Does your wife know you are unhappy?

Are there things about your wife and/or your marriage that you like?

My wife know that I am not happy but she didn't care .
I can't just be friend cause I am not living in my country and if I divorse I have to leave to my country and the kids will stay with her .

What solution do you imagine?

Have you tried counseling to help the relationship?