[norma2800]

A while back I was having some issues with my fiancé he was drinking a lot and lost several jobs I supported him during his job searches, I finally said enough and he went to rehab for six months and has become a better person and we are getting married this year... problem is that one time last year I can home and found another woman in my home with her daughter. My daughtetr and her daughter were friends, they met while my fiancé would walk our dog on a daily basis, and she had come over to play with my kid. When I got home I was shocked and upset, I can't understand why she would come to my house me never meeting her and hang out so the kids can play. I walked in said oh hi and went straight to my room, to recollect my thoughts, my fiancé came in and asked what was wrong I said what is that woman doing in my house and by that time she burned off. He told me that she brought her kid to play with our kid. I just did not like that whole situation, well a lot of time has passed and about a couple of weeks ago she asked how my fiancé was doing I said good and walked off. I do not like her and I do not want to communiate with her, her daughter wants to play with my kid and I know its not the kids fault I feel the way I do but what can I say to tell her back off in a nice but demanding way? And when I asked my fiancé about her he says he doesn't remember her? I was an alcoholic and they are several things that I know he dosen't remember, is he telling the truth should I push the issue or wha? I want a good marriage but whit that woman walking around I am unsure? What do I do? Confront her with her husband? Kick Her ? Leave it alone? Pleae help? :confused:

[oneguyinohio]

One day at a time... what does it matter if they had the time of their lives in the sack in the past? Live for the present and for things to be better in the future. You've got a good thing going right now! You might be missing out on a good friend by not getting to know the woman... but yeah, lay down some firm rules that no one comes in to your house when you are not there. That way your castle does not get violated, and you don't have to worry about prince charming.