A while back I was having some issues with my fiancé he was drinking a lot and lost several jobs I supported him during his job searches, I finally said enough and he went to rehab for six months and has become a better person and we are getting married this year... problem is that one time last year I can home and found another woman in my home with her daughter. My daughtetr and her daughter were friends, they met while my fiancé would walk our dog on a daily basis, and she had come over to play with my kid. When I got home I was shocked and upset, I can't understand why she would come to my house me never meeting her and hang out so the kids can play. I walked in said oh hi and went straight to my room, to recollect my thoughts, my fiancé came in and asked what was wrong I said what is that woman doing in my house and by that time she burned off. He told me that she brought her kid to play with our kid. I just did not like that whole situation, well a lot of time has passed and about a couple of weeks ago she asked how my fiancé was doing I said good and walked off. I do not like her and I do not want to communiate with her, her daughter wants to play with my kid and I know its not the kids fault I feel the way I do but what can I say to tell her back off in a nice but demanding way? And when I asked my fiancé about her he says he doesn't remember her? I was an alcoholic and they are several things that I know he dosen't remember, is he telling the truth should I push the issue or wha? I want a good marriage but whit that woman walking around I am unsure? What do I do? Confront her with her husband? Kick Her ? Leave it alone? Pleae help? :confused:
