[Alex James]

I have been together with my girl 2 years and I moved from another country just for her we where so happy all the time , but we have diferrences like she's in college she is 21 I am 25 when I moved here for her, she lend me her car so I can work for more that 5 months, and she says to me that she thinks I depend a lot from her because of the car and everything .
We argue for stupid reason like I didn't want to drink or a don't like pot and she wants to have fun and stuff like that.
I know she loves me a lot and she says that she is very attracted to me but she things that she is not happy like she us too be.
So she broke up with me and took her car and say to me like we should be friends.

Now all of our friends are the same and I love her to dead I already apologize to her and Im buying a car next week to prove her that I don't depend on her and because I finnally can afford it but she is scared because she is graduating college in May and going for 3 months or 4 to China for an internship, and she things that I don't trust her and we are not a good long distance couple. I don't know what to do I already talk to her and send her flowers but she says to me that that it would be harder for me so I should stop sending her flowers , she is being strong and firm on her desition because she has not been along since the break up she is with her friend all the time and night. And she knows that I am desperate for her and right now my friends are not here so is hard to nos think on her all the time.
So what should I do to get her back I love her and I want a future with her I want her to be the mom of my children's what can I do to make her come back I love her please help me.

[talaniman]

You and her are at such different places in life that it creates conflict. You have no choice but to let her go, while you build your own life. At this time you both are going in different direction. It happens in life.