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baby83happy · Dec 26, 2007, 03:45 AM

This year christmas really a difference for me.. is not only I involved in the drama production but I got to know him through my sister. He and my sister worked in the same company and I still undergraduate.. my sister always "promote" about me among her friens.. I never know that I will get to meet him personally.. frankly speaking, I really tired because of the everyday's rehearsal.. when my sis told me that'he' dreamed about me.. I thou that something wrong with him.. :eek: n I said that maybe can ask him come to join the show for the christmas in my church.. I never know that he really responded so fast and say yes... n also invited me and my sister to his church also..
Wow.. He really came but late a bit.. when I saw him, that kind of feeling was so different and both of us stared to each others.. so cute.. haha...
After the show, me, my sister and He went to MAKAN.. we talked a lot but he seem like a bit shy.. aiyo.. yo... whats happening... but he will looked at people and smiled...
Me and my sis supposed went to his church together but last minutes, I went alone to meet him.. oh my god, I feel so 'KAN JIONG'... alone loh...
He keep message me and make sure that I'm safe to reach the place...
The train stopped at the SINGPORE EXPO...
I saw him... he looked so different... hahaha.. so surprised...
We talked... talked... a lot... but still interrupted by his friends loh... aiya,why I so bother so much...
After the show, we went to the carnival.lots games and stuffs to c.
Met his friend who was helping people to draw portrait... woo,so nice
After that, he walked me to the bus stop.n said that to me:'think every gal who met my friend sure like him because he knoe how to draw and also an architect... "he asked me whether will i fall in love with his friend if got chance to knoe him...
on my god,i never never think such way....what i can answered him was:" different people different talent.. thats y God asked us to serve together"
We talked again until I boarding the bus...
Think he is the first guy which I had that kind comfortable feeling and safe to be together... hoi,is not saying that all the guys'friends I have are monster, k... him is different...
I wish to get to know him more...
But... but... too bad, after that nitez, we don even message to each other...
I donno why he always tell my sis that I so wonderful...
I studying degree in Biomedical Science.. involved church activities,playing violin,doing part time also...
I admit that I have quite numbers of guys'friens.. but a friend... really hope that he will not think too much...
Sometimes we may fall in love with someone but the person might not have same feeling like us
I still remembered that the guy who expressed his feeling to me but I want to be a friend
I know it is hurting but I don want to lie to myself and him also.n he left to U K
Now I met another person.. should I wait for him to ask me out again or let it be.. pretend we never meet up before n... maybe wait till I finiz my studies and let him know my feeling? I myself also can't believe that I have so strong feeling towards him... maybe a temporary or I think too much.. another maybe... maybe he already have his own choice... maybe... anyway, at least I got chance to meet up with him before.should give my sister a treat loh... ha

talaniman · Dec 26, 2007, 09:49 AM

Nice story. Go slow and enjoy your life before you commit. What's the hurry? You should be enjoying everything right now, you'll know when the time is right to move ahead, and with whom. Yes, give your sis a treat.

Crista · Dec 26, 2007, 10:02 AM

In my opinion, live life where you are fine just by yourself. That's what I did. I just enjoyed life, went out with my gfs, danced with guys, and just stopped "looking" for Mr. Right. I didn't stress anymore about why I didn't have a boyfriend and totally relaxed being myself. Well, not too long after that, my Mr. Right came to ME. I patiently waited for him and now we have a 5 year anniversary coming up in Feb. We married just this June and I am happy.
So, don't stop living life to your fullest. I know what they say about sometimes the guy likes it when the girl goes to them, but some guys think it shows neediness. Real men like a woman to be independent.
Trust me.

baby83happy · Dec 27, 2007, 11:29 PM

I do enjoy my life:p... don worry... hee
Today a bit moody moody loh.. trying to finiz my assignment and attending the gathering later on... got chance to meet up with them again.. looking forward and kepo kepo:D
Guess what?
I went to my aunty's house lats nitez.. n chit chat as if I going to leave singapore tmr:D until quite very the late... I know she concern about me.. keep asking about my relationship.. haha.. I did tell her what I told you people:)...
She said... aiyo,so silly gal,my dear.. n tell me to treasure the time with him together.. I nod nod my head.. maybe she know that once I finiz my this year module, and I will fly over to another country to continue my studies... by that time, who knows what will happen?;)