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suirvale · Feb 5, 2006, 03:44 AM

Oh looking back at the replies I also forget the girl was africa and a very poor country so this made me feel sorry and kind to her ,she was a lovely person and when she told me of the famines etc phew this made me love her even more , so all in all I did not take the elsat bit of notice of her size,, regds mike

lilfyre · Feb 5, 2006, 10:25 AM

How about with some one you love rather than fat or skinny.

suirvale · Feb 5, 2006, 06:19 PM

Mmmmmm u have me thinking I find it difficult at times to sue this site as well, mike

nero2 · Feb 6, 2006, 10:54 PM

Originally Posted by asktoknow

i wanted to know if having sex with a fat woman or that has more weight (not necessarily huge) is more fun or fulfilling than with a skinny one...

I think it is some how true but I don't know how to say it. That what I think.

scaredgal · Feb 26, 2006, 12:12 AM

Originally Posted by nero2

I think it is some how true but i don't know how to say it. That what i think.

I am not a man but as a woman who is about 240 I will give my experience. I actually asked my fiancé one day why it was he has always been with a bigger girl (his ex was bigger than me). He is very tall, thin and he could get a small girl if he so desired. He said he had dated a little blonde thin girl like 120 and about 5'6. He said he liked her but when it came time to go to bed it just felt odd. Felt like he was with a strange boy because there wasn't hardly any softness or curves to feel. He loves my DDs and curvy softness and I am thankful there are men out there that do.

I am trying to lose weight just to be healthier but I am sure it won't change how I am sexually, I am one of the most passionate, creative, open minded women I know when it comes to the bedroom with my man. Its ultimately my mind and personality that make me sexy.

suirvale · Feb 26, 2006, 02:24 PM

Yes I can understand so much what you are saying,. I think society has a lot to answer for, As I may have said before I was dating a lovely big happy girl from africa and I got some racist comments which really sickened and I nearly would be getting into fights every night , it really use to anger me so much remarks about her size into the bargain,, its most thick heads in pubs/bars of course that make ignorant comments anyway, yes I did not think any of the girls as BIG it was the complete package of bubbly personality etc that got me hooked,, regds mike

Chery · Feb 27, 2006, 07:20 AM

Originally Posted by suirvale

mmmmmm u have me thinking i find it difficult at times to sue this site as well,.mike

Did you mean sue or use??

What happens between two people, magic, chemical,or otherwise, is just the way life continues.

If someone is from a poor part of town - no matter what country!! - and wants that chance to get a better life - it does not necessarily mean that they are 'gold-diggers'. Some are really sincere in try to find a partner to be happy with and help make a partnership very happy. Some are taught to go about it other ways by their parents, or culture, but nonetheless, still only stive to be happy like the rest of us, rich or poor.

Don't look at the status that much, look into the heart and see what's there.

I have dealt with Korean ladies who married soldiers just to get their U.S. citizenship and tell him to get out of their lives - they get taught that from the 'mammsan' who is a leading lady who teaches how to entrap solders and they acturally have to make payments to her for many years if they reach a status. It depends into what hands these young ladies fall into and the influence brainwashed into them. But, some actually have excaped this and showed a true heart instead of bank accounts.

There are even slums in the U.S. and in all countries, where young folks try to look for a better future - so it really does not matter what country - just the state of things the world is in now and how the politicians and landlords let certain areas get worse due to being greedy.

As far as the size of someone, there is a lid for every pot and the accompanying taste in a person that is impressed upon them by the types of people they get attracted to. Do not let 'society' rule your taste or who you should fall for. The magazines are there to make money and sell what they think is a 'fad' but it's just another way of manipulating the mind - as if we were kids and can't choose on our own.

Hope this help you get another insight on how people can feel if leaving all the other influential trash out of their lives. As long as someone makes you happy - that's what counts.

Life is too short, make your own choice and try for that niche of happiness.

mbya777 · Feb 27, 2006, 09:28 AM

See, if I was a guy I would like a healthy full sized girl, not fat not heavy just a normal sized girl, media plays too much into having a skinny girl and I just don't see it as attractive.
Being helathy and a nice medium sized weight I think would be my ideal girl.. plus medium sized girls have boobs and *** and I think this would be great compared to just bones, don't get me wrong I'm not talking about FAT but just something to hold.

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smoothy · Apr 16, 2007, 12:04 PM

My pre-marriage life experience has been heavier women tend to be more easy going and have less of a gods gift to mankind thing going on that most beautiful well built women have, mostly when they are younger. You know that arrogance about how they are soooo hot they are too good for you. Many later get fat and ugly and still have that attitude and spend a miserable life alone as a result.

Not saying they all do, but a lot do. Personally I have enjoyed myself far more with a woman who was 170 lbs than some that were 120 lbs. Its not all about looks. Attitude has a LOT to do with it as well.

EnglishRose · Apr 17, 2007, 09:01 AM

Some men like women who are build for comfort not speed!

EnglishRose · Apr 17, 2007, 09:05 AM

I really don't think the way a person looks will have any affect on their er... talent, but being confident in yourself can make a massive difference. If anyone has a hang up about a certain body part they can often ruin the moment trying to cover it and that is definitely not sexy! That said I think women should have curves!

smoothy · Apr 17, 2007, 09:55 AM

Oh I'm not saying I prefer heavier women, I just prefer their attitudes about life. They just tend to be more easy going and less judgmental on the average. My wife is a tiny little thing, about 5 foot and 100 lbs, But she does not have a gods gift to man (and never has) attitude so many women have. I'm just not attracted to people who think they are superior to the average person. And trust me, my wife is anything but timid or submissive.

kp2171 · Apr 22, 2007, 12:12 AM

Diff strokes, diff folks.

My cousin, a fairly fit 38 yo, has always liked women who were bigger... as in bigger chests and generally overall. No skinny models for him. His wife says he likes "fat chicks"... though, again, I think the use of the term "fat" is a little extreme here.

I've always been attracted to skinnier women, but have always dated women who were attracted to a bigger man. Not fat, but wider... as in my pant size isn't anywhere near as small as hers. And then my partner before my current one was a little bit curvier than the others, and I thought she was sexy as any of them.

But I have a female friend to dates smaller men mostly.

So... again, to each their own. I don't think you can say "one size fits all"