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nicolieolie5990 · Nov 23, 2007, 06:26 PM

What are some tips I can work on about being Insecure in my relationship? I don't believe that I am I just don't trust my boyfriends friends and I think they would influence him to do something and I know they cheat on their girlfriends so if he likes to hang out with them then how do I know he doesn't like to do the same thing even though he tells me I'm the one with the problem? What is some advice anyone can give me? He then tells "what you dont think you can find anyone better" is he trying to intimidate me or does he just really want to break up because he has some one else on the side ? Please I need help:confused:

FallenKnight · Nov 23, 2007, 06:29 PM

You can find someone better than that, he's treating you like dirt. It might not seem like you can find someone better, but trust me you can.

No relationship will wok, but one.

J_9 · Nov 23, 2007, 07:06 PM

Not only is he treating you like dirt, but from reading your other posts he is using you. He doesn't have a job or a car, uses you money for his alcohol.

Honey, this is not a relationship. This is pure hell you are living in. Get out now while you still can.

Leidenschaftlich für Wahr · Nov 23, 2007, 08:01 PM

Him asking you if you can't find anyone better is proof that you could, sadly though he speaks the truth in the statement that you don't 'think' you can find anyone better, although you can.
You are who your friends are, and if he insists on hanging out with these guys on a regular basis, then he probably has some of the same traits as them.
Don't put up with it, because before you know it he could be abusing you or worse

friend4u178 · Nov 23, 2007, 08:09 PM

I like J_9 have read all your posts. This is not a relationship , he is using you. In my opinion you should be booting this guy as soon as you can. You deserve someone who will treat you as you should be.

Barbid · Nov 23, 2007, 11:58 PM

Originally Posted by nicolieolie5990

What are some tips I can work on about being Insecure in my relationship? I dont belive that i am i just dont trust my boyfriends friends and i think they would influence him to do something and i know they cheat on their girlfriends so if he likes to hang out with them then how do i know he dosent like to do the same thing even tho he tells me i'm the one with the problem? what is some advice anyone can give me? he then tells "what you dont think you can find anyone better" is he trying to intimidate me or does he just really wanna break up bc he has some one else on the side ? Please I need help:confused:

Oh my... he actually asked if you could do better than him? He must be a pretty boy. Sounds like he has an image with his buddies that he has to live up to. My advise... I've dated guys like that... dump him. Show him you can do better than him. He needs to have his ego lowered. Guys like that get married and abuse women.