[kmj217]

I have been with my girlfriend for about 2 years now and would do anything for her... she honestly is the one I think I want to spend the rest of my life with but recently my dad had drug addiction problems my mom works and goes to school and my sisters boyfriend hits her plus I go to school and have work to worry about... she always tries to help me with my problems and I usually let her unless I just do not feel like talking about it because I don't want her to get caught up in problems and have more stress than she has to... sometimes she will text me at times that I can't text her back and started to get angry and last Sunday I didn't hear from her at all I txted and called her but she wouldn't respond so I was a bit concerned... the next day at school I met her coming into school like I always do and asked her why she didn't call me back and she told me that she didn't want to talk to me when I asked her why she told me because I don't do anything for her and do not contribute to the relationship which pissed me off because I try and do everything I can for her as I said I love her more than anything... then I did yell a little saying that I don't always have time to text or call her back right away sometimes then I walked away because I did not want to say anything id regret... then she left me alone for like 5 min then came downstairs in school pushed me into a wall and screamed in my face about how I don't do anything which really made me mad because she has no right or reason to put her hands on me like that so I walked away again for the same reason and went into my class but she stood outside and told me to come back out so I did. When I did I asked her why she didn't call me yesterday and she told me that her mom told her to give me a "taste of my own medicine" which is really childish for a 34 year old woman then she started crying and talked to me about everything but still saying I don't do anything for the 3rd time so I told her I'm just going to walk away but she came back a 4th time... at this point I'm really mad and told her we were breaking up... now she will not talk to me and blamed the entire thing on me saying that "i broke up with her" but I don't think it was entirely my fault and I shouldn't be the only person appologizing... I really just want her back though she was my first everything and I was her first so I know that she still loves me but her friend and mom I know are manipulating her and telling her what to do because I know how she is and I know she would not do this on her own... I just don't know what I should do

[charlotte234s]

You need to go talk to her, you hurt her pride, and she is very upset, and you may be too, but if you want this to work out, go apologize, she will too, afterwards, if she still cares.