[Krapo]

Hello,

I have actually known my girlfriend (now ex-gf since past 2 months) for 5 years nearly and we have had a long distance relationship for these 5 years as she was studying in another country. At the beginning she used to love me lots (and I mean lots) and she used to phone me from abroad every now and then. But at that time I was not sure that I really loved her and sometimes I was avoiding her for no reason. And now after 4 years she suddenly told me that can't be in such as state anymore and wants to break off.

Its only then that I realised how ty I was and I got the real shock of my life and discovered that now, its me who loves her very much but she does not anymore (she says its really too late, she had enough with me). I tried hard all ways (trying explain her that I love her much, I also said I will NEVER repeat the same mistakes again,I also promised lots of things now, but all these is as if nothing for her now, she is just ignoring everything).

Note that she at least agreed to be my friend.

But now I want to get her back, I know that she is not going out with anybody else. But
How do I do?? Can anyone give me a stepwise very detailed strategy how should I go about it and make her fall for me again as I love her very much now?

Am out of resources, please help me out someone?

Best Rgds,
Kraps

[DJ1963]

How old are you both?

Have you ever met face to face?

[Krapo]

how old are you both?

have you ever met face to face?

Am 26 and she 23. Ya we have met, she comes from abroad for a couple of weeks every 6 month. Right now she's still abroad and completing her studies and coming in Feb 2008. Last time she was here was in January 2007 and we went out and had fun and joked. Also note that she told me we need to break 2 weeks back.


Tell me how should I react when I meet her in Feb 2008? Should I play like no more interested. I fear to play this because she is no more in love with me and might agree to what I tell her, then am really dumped for sure! So I do not want to take any risks. Any expert to tell me how should I react the very first day I meet her?


Anyone help me out with this prob?

Many thanks

[nikkiharms3]

I think that the chances that you two will ever truly be together are slim,

You should not need a strategy! If its meant to be it will just happen.

Can I ask what is it that you done that you said sorry for and you won't do again??
Because if it's that you have cheated on her then she is doing the right thing by steering clear?

[talaniman]

There is no such thing, as a sure fire stategy to get someone back. Thats completely up to her to decide.

[I wish]

Wow he posted that question a year and a half ago. I'm sure the whole situation has changed by now.

[Bengie_1961]

First of all, the fact that you're thinking & asking for assistance to get her back shows a lack of maturity. Respect yourself and her wishes also. The fact that she's not seeing anyone at this time, doesn't mean she is interested in you or anyone else for that matter. Let it go. How could you in the same breath love her and turn around and have the mind set that you're displaying (wanting to get her back). She is pursuing a degree, as you say, that should tell you a little about her mind set. Give her the space that she needs.

[talaniman]

Opps good catch I wish.