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    Nov 12, 2007, 09:46 PM
    Breakee Still emotional?
    Been broken up with my Ex for over two weeks now and its been 1 week nc we broke up because of some issues I needed help with. I find out she cries when people talk about me still after two weeks that normal for the Breakee after two weeks? She said she still loved me but needed space that was before NC started a week ago.
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    Nov 12, 2007, 10:02 PM
    Yes she is most likely very emotionally attached to you. If you have issues you need help with and want to be with her why not get the issues resolved so she doesn't 'need her space' and then you can work on your relationship. I am not sure if you are saying she says she wants her space because you broke up with her or because she couldn't deal with your issues. So a lot of the answer could lie in
    A. Do you want her back?
    B. Would it be workable to be together and work on your issues together?
    C. Is her 'needing space' just a defense mechanism for you breaking up with her?
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    Nov 13, 2007, 12:03 AM
    Ask yourself this. If I loved someone and they broke up with me would I cry and would I want to see them all the time considering they hurt me? My answer would be yes then no. It is absolutely normal for her to cry. Are you having second thoughts?
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    Nov 14, 2007, 04:55 PM
    No you see she broke up with me. And yes I'm actually getting help with my problems
    And yes I love her and want to be back with her
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    Nov 14, 2007, 04:56 PM
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    She broke up with me not the other way around.
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    Nov 14, 2007, 04:58 PM
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    She broke up with me because of these issues.
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    Nov 14, 2007, 08:59 PM
    The only thing you can do to ensure the best possible out come is give her space. It's the only way.
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