[Emilie123]

I've been engaged for a year and have known and dated my fiancé for about 3 years. Recently we moved to the town he grew up in, back with all his old friends and family. His friends are my new friends now. I've become close (as friends) to his best friend. I know it sounds weird, but we are very close. I assure my fiancé that there is nothing going on between us, that we are strictly buddies, and have a lot in common. Recently I've discovered that ALL his friends think there is something going on with me and my fiance's best friend. How do I assure my fiancé that I'm loyal to only him? The 3 of us have even sat down as adults and discussed the issue, but his best friend can't help but believe my fiancé is hurting and won't show it...

[yourman64]

You should try to spend less time with his friend, it would calm things down a little

[Emilie123]

Thanks

[N0help4u]

I agree with yourman. If you can't account for your time and/or you are spending time with him when your fiancé isn't there you are only asking for trouble.

[peggyhill]

Are you spending a lot of time alone with him? If so, then that's probably why they think something is going on. I agree with yourman64, ease off on the time you spend with him. If you want to hang out, then invite him over when your boyfriend is there or ask him to go to a movie with the two of you. See if you can set him up on a date with a single friend of yours. Maybe if people see you and your boyfriend and him and another girl on a double date, then will realize that nothing is going on between you two. It sucks when people gossip! :) Good luck!