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    Oct 25, 2007, 12:42 PM
    Jealous of my man!
    Hello,

    I have been dating my boyfriend for about a year and a few months ago we started having a long distance relationship (due to school) and we are planning on moving in together in 2-3 years. During this time I am working Mon-Fri - 12 hours a day. So weekends I am to dead to do anything. He is doing school,working, and he has his own car(parents bought him), his parents give him money all the time. He is travelling all around with his school ( which his parents are paying for everything! ) Anyway I am completely JEALOUS! I have to work really hard for my money to go see him and pay for stuff for me and he gets everything handed to him!! But I am alone at night ,tired just wanting to talk to him but he's either traveling, working or at bars. I totally trust him and our relationship is awesome! But do you maybe know how I can overcome this jealously?? I'm going crazy. Thank you.
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    Oct 25, 2007, 12:53 PM
    Look at this way, if you two stay together then you'll have a better handle and better appreciation of the money you have and everything else you have. I have the same problem with my girlfriend, her parents give her everything and I bust my butt to get what I have. Just realize that jealously only leads to resentment. Also let him know, tell him that you have to work hard to get the money in order to see him. Give him hints that maybe he can help you out sometimes. Tell him you have to work hard to see him, and you're okay with that cause he means that much to you. Good luck, I know it's not easy.

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