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acovey · Oct 22, 2007, 09:45 AM

I really like this guy who is 18. And he is very confusing. One minute he likes me and then the other he doesn't. He likes all the things I do and loves to play music. But I also am falling for this other guy who is 17. He is a sweetheart but has a problem with getting into trouble. I like them both but I don't know what to do. Im going to be 17 in a couple of months, and my life just feels confusing. Please help.

SDRAWKCAB-SDRAWROF · Oct 22, 2007, 10:41 AM

Originally Posted by acovey

I really like this guy who is 18. And he is very confusing. One minute he likes me and then the other he doesnt. He likes all the things i do and loves to play music. But i also am falling for this other guy who is 17. He is a sweetheart but has a problem with getting into trouble. I like them both but i dont know wat to do. Im going to be 17 in a couple of months, and my life just feels confusing. Please help.

Ok doke, how long have you known both of these guys? Simple question: which one do you get along with better? I mean its great that the 18 year old and you have things in common but perhaps you have to consider the fact that there is an age gap. Of course this is all dependent on what you want from them.

cchotiner333 · Oct 22, 2007, 11:09 AM

I'd say, take your time and have fun! Get to know them both and if you feel bad or guilty about seeing two of them, say behind eachother's back, just tell them that you are not seeing anyone exclusively right now. You are young and you have many years ahead to get into serious and heavy dating. I was 16 when I got into my first heavy relationship and I ended up getting pregnant when I was 18. I don't regret having my son, but I wish that I had held off and not had him at such a young age. I missed out on a lot, having a child. Please don't make the same mistake that I did, also the guy, he left me. I was left 2 months pregnant and alone. I am very lucky to have found someone else who took us both in. Sorry, I'm just very opinionated on this subject and if I could help someone else not make the same mistake that I did, it would make me very happy. Good Luck to you, I hope you have a lot of fun!