[nick88]

OK so today I was waiting for my boyfriend in the car and he left his cellphone so I decided to check through it. I looked through his messages and in his inbox I read messages. One of them said hey hottie wutsup? So obviously it's a girl. Other messages said, when are you going to break up with her, you guys always fight. And other it said yea I'm almost home. So that means that he probably asked her o wer you at. Other it said why did you go to the party I thought you wanted to make plans with me. The other one said want to come to the movies tonitee.. there were other ones too like if you want you can come meet me at school. I looked at the dates and they all ranged back from the beginning of September but I don't no how long they been talking because messages get deleted automatically when they are old. The thing is that I've been going out with him for a year and I'm always with him, I see him everyday so even if he was cheating on me I wouldn't know when he goes and see her unless he sees her after I leave. This is making me crazy. I never ever in a million years expected this from him. Sometimes when I'm with him he gets calls and he doesn't pick them up and I ask who it is and he says its one of his friends and says ill just call him back later. And when I get messages or someone calls me, he always asks me who is it, what they say, what did you tell them. I wanted to see his responses but I couldn't find his outbox. Anyway what should I? Should I confront him about it or should I wait until I have more information. I took down the number and I want to call to see who it is and find out her name.

Is this considered as cheating? Do you think he is cheating on me?

As soon as I found this out I couldn't look at him the same because obviously he is keeping something from me.

WHAT SHOULD I DO? HELPP!

[Leidenschaftlich für Wahr]

End it right away. If he is not cheating on you, which it sounds to me like he is, he is keeping this from you and lying to you, which is JUST as bad.
If he cares this little for you after a year of dating then who knows whatll happen later on in your lives...
Before you leave him you should definitely confront him, and see what his excuses are. Odds are he will get mad at you for reading through his phone, at which point you can tell him he is not in the place to be getting angry, you are.