[shonny7]

A month ago, I started dating a girl. On our first date we had great time and spend almost four hours togather. After a week or so we wend on a second date, which was more of a casual and easy going. We spend out valuable time at Art museum. Within next couple of days we went out for a show and nice dinner. Once again we had great time. At the end of our third date I felt a moment and I kissed her, on which she responded very well. We almost kissed for 80-90 seconds. Everything was fine until then. But since then, whenever I called her, she told me that she was busy. Last Friday I even called her and asked if she wanted to do something, but she told me whole of a busy weekend plan. I can easily understand that she doesn't want to pursue this anymore, but her behavior just doesn't make any sense. I really had great time with her and she did too. But this sudden drop of interest is just annoying. Any perspectives on this?

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[Clough]

Please ask her about it. Communicate. It's not all about what you and she did together. You can analyze all that you want. A lot of guys do that. See what she thinks. Be upfront about it. Maybe she isn't interested anymore. Maybe she is. You won't know until you speak to her and ask her about how she feels.

[mishelly3]

I agree with clough just talk to her maybe you did something with ouy knowing or maybe its just her just sitt her down and just ask her it might be a bit embarrassing to you but this way you'll know what happen and you'll know actually what's going on..