[Donnica]

I have been in a relationship now for a year and 3 months. I have known my boyfriend for about 2 years before we even started dating. When I found out he liked me I knew he was the one. After about 6 months into the relationship things started changing. We argued more we grew apart on the things we liked. I see him almost every single day but I still feel like we are growing apart. When I am around him I start to feel down about myself like I'm not worth anything. 8 months into the relationship I found out I was pregnant (yes I'm serious). He stressed me so bad that I ended up losing the baby when I was 4 months along. After that happened we seemed to get closer. NOT FOR LONG THOUGH. Everysince then we fight all day! I don't want to leave because I love him but I don't want to stay either. Recently I found out a girl at my school liked him & I told him about it and he blew it off. A few days later... He was walking down the hall with her EVERYWHERE he went. It really bothered me and he kept saying she was his best friend but I didn't believe it my heart told me there was so much more. So we broke up and I missed him like hell for 3 days. Then we ended up getting back together & I asked him for his Yahoo password and he kept saying that he didn't know it. HUM.. I thought this was strange. I went to forgot password and got his password. When I got on the computer I found out that he was written the girl I suspected him of cheatin with. He was asking her could he go to her house and when she was going to meet him at the club and so fourth. I was so hurt because I knew why he wanted to go to her house. To this day they both keep denying they didn't do anything but I'm not sure... PLEASE HELP ME
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[GlindaofOz]

No. No he does not. And you do not deserve to be treated this way. I would walk away and thank my lucky stars to be able to do so.

[Amy_Apples]

Nope not at all dear. Why you would still be with him is beyond me. I know that you say that you "Love him" but truly how many guys have you dated? I say it all the time, but you have to really think about it. Why do you want to be with someone that doesn't want to be with you? I was with this guys for 4 years and then we almost got married then we didn't and he asks me out all the time and we were on and off for awhile and I always told everyone who asked why I did that, that I loved him. But how can you love someone who does that hunny? I think it is time to move on. It will be hard but you can do it!
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[klovesj110603]

Right... You don't need someone who will bring you down... I had 2 of those as parents and believe me you don't want that in a mate. You can find someone who will love you no matter what. A man should never bring you down and if he does he isn't much of a man. The world is full of good guys when you met one take your time to get to know them and take it from there. I am guessin you are young... Live life and put him in your rear view mirror

[MilitaryMan19D30]

There is a good chance he's seeing someone else. If you want to know for sure distance yourself from him. If he's got someone else he won't care. You need to ask yourself, "Does this person make me a better person?" and only you can truly decide because no one else knows your situation better than you.

[s_cianci]

Sounds like a loser to me. Certainly not anyone I'd want one of my daughters dating. I'd dump him like a hot potato if I were you.

[klovesj110603]

A man is never worth ur tears!!!!! and when he is he wont make u cry take that 2 heart it is very true

[rkim291968]

It has all the signs of a relationship which won't last long. If it lasts long, there would be a lot of ups and downs, mostly downs. Start new.