[thomas336]

It has been 2 weeks since I last spoke to her. We both agreed that we needed to take a break. I have been doing a great job of not contacting her at all. No calls, no emails, nothing! She emailed me last Saturday, saying she just wanted to drop a line and say hello and to give my dog a hug & kiss from her. She also thanked me for getting her a book? I never gave her any books? She was the one who initiated the break and I have been trying to focus on me. I have begun going to thearapy and studying for my Real Estate Brokers exam. I have researched on line that the worste thing you can do is look desperate and be easaily accesable for her, there for I have been strong and stopped all communication. I do mis her very much, how long should I wait until I do contact her?

Any advice??

[mckenzie134]

Its Over...

[Skell]

You sound as though you have been making progress with things in your life since she asked for a break. If I were you id continue making that progress and leave it be for a while longer.

2 weeks is hardly what id call a break. Did you two agree on a time for this break? If so how long was it.

You really need longer than two weeks apart to figure things out for yourself and decide whether to give it another try. In 2 weeks there is no way the substantial changed required in one or both parties could have been sufficiently made in order for it to work this time. If no changes have been made then the relationship will simply fail again for the same reasons it did last time.