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    4570bigg Posts: 10, Reputation: 1
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    Jul 7, 2007, 05:50 PM
    How to really talk to a girl?
    When it come to girls it hard talking to them its like my mind go dumb... all I need to is some tips on talking to girls or anything and how to come up to a girl and leave with her nub and what not to say to them??
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    cal823 Posts: 867, Reputation: 116
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    Jul 7, 2007, 05:53 PM
    Okay, things not to mention/joke about - PMS. That's the big one. Apart from that, its mostly same as guys, just slightly more sensitive
    Be yourself. Be honest. Be confident. Look people in the eye. Relax. If you get slapped, then that's another topic to add to the don't mention list.
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    kristynn Posts: 502, Reputation: 66
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    Jul 7, 2007, 06:23 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by 4570bigg
    When it come to girls it hard talkin to them its like my mind go dumb....
    Why does your mind goes dumb, honey?

    You simply have to talk to them the way you talk to anyone else. Don't treat them differently and therefore, don't talk to them differently. Just be honest and if you don't know them very well just talk about things you might have in common. You will figure out by yourself what not to talk about.
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    cal823 Posts: 867, Reputation: 116
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    Jul 7, 2007, 06:26 PM
    I used to get lost for words when trying to talk to this chick I have feelings for, its quite awkward.
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    Wondergirl Posts: 38,226, Reputation: 5430
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    Jul 7, 2007, 07:13 PM
    Girls like to talk. Start with something you have in common--church, school, friends, pets. Ask her a question about one of those. After that, all you have to do is have an interested look on your face, make good eye contact, smile now and then, and make noises like "Oh, wow" and "Tell me more" and "Really!" and "That's amazing!" (as appropriate, of course). She will think you are the best conversationalist in the world!
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    talaniman Posts: 54,318, Reputation: 10854

    Jul 7, 2007, 08:15 PM
    Unless she is really shy if you start them talking by making them feel comfortable they take over, and you just have to be an excellent listener. They will love you for it, when they can talk about anything.
    Do not try to impress them by being cool, arrogant, or out talk them. Just show your interest, and flirt so they know your very interested, and look them in the eyes. A good sense of humor is a must. The more females your around, the more comfortable you will be with them. Despite all the legends they are people too.

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