[jordyx2]

There's this kid named ryan and I like him a lot and he's in 8th grade and I'm in 9th grade and I don't know if I should ask him out or not. PLEASE HELP ME!! If I should ask him out... how should I ask him? In person?

[Rockabilly1955mama]

If you like him, go for it. You have nothing to loose and so much to gain. In person is the most effective way to ask someone out.
Do you think he likes you as well?

[jordyx2]

Yea kind of he came over my house for the weekend and he kind of ignored everyone but me but our moms are wicked close and I'm not sure. What should I do?

[Rockabilly1955mama]

I would go for it! Ask him out my dear.

[jordyx2]

But how? What should I say? He's kind of popular so I don't want to screw up and I'm afraid of rejection

[Rockabilly1955mama]

In doing something like this, you must expect both the worst and the best. They most effective way you can ask him out would be in person. You might want to start by telling him you like him and share your feelings about him, to him. If he is kind of stand-offish about the whole thing, you will know that he isn't the one and not to ask him out. If he shares his feelings with you and they are good, you will know that he does like you. You never know, after this he might be the one asking you out. ;)

[jordyx2]

Yea I guess so but I'm really bad at talking to guys. His sister is 18 and I told her and she doesn't think he likes anyone right now. The thing I love about him is he always tries to impress me and makes me laugh... a ton. Hahaha

[Rockabilly1955mama]

You're still young, I think every girl and guy have problems at some point talking to the other sex. And trying to impress you is a very good thing!

[jordyx2]

True well, I guess I could ask him out my cousin and sister think I definitely should and his cousins think he mite like me. But I garentee he'll say no. hahaha o well ill try

[Rockabilly1955mama]

You never know unless you give it a try. Good luck my dear!

[jordyx2]

Thank you so much you gave me a lot of confidence ill tell you what he says but I decided to "talk to him" at our next cookout when no one is around

[Rockabilly1955mama]

You're very welcome, I'm glad I did. :)
Ok honey, that sounds good!

[jordyx2]

Thank you so much you gave me the confidence I need ill tell you what he says I decided to "talk to him" at our next cookout when we are alone

[cal823]

Be yourself. Be confident. Be honest. Don't get disapointed, but don't give up hope. Look right into their eyes, with good posture, lean forward, and tell them how it is.