[Radium]

Well My ex and I have been having really weird times. First off She called me about a month ago asking that I don't go to a show because she was going to be there. I ended up going, she was the one that found me in the crowd I might add. After the show she found me and we had a cigerette and a chat. It was OK. I then gave her a ride home and everything was fine. I didn't talk to her for a couple weeks and then called her asking to get my Things back that she still had at her house. When I got there she was a total to me for no reason. She was ragging on me about my beard and the way I dressed. She then said that I smelled like a cigerette and I said back to her " what you dont smoke anymore?" She stated that she was an entirely different person. And I chuckled. She helped me take things to my car and when we got down there she asked to buma smoke. I thought it odd after her last comment. Any way I left her place and both of us were at odds. I don't like that I left that way but it happens. I want to be friends with her but she says she can't do that because She knows I love her. I do, but I understand that we won't be back together, so I would like to make friends with her that's all. I just can't seem to let go and when I try to is depresses me, I am not sure why this is. She was a really good friend of mine and has now written me off. How do I get over these feelings and start moving forward. I can't let go it seems and it is driving me nuts. IF people have suggestions on what they think might be going with her. Or with me or things I could do to heal I am all ears. LEt me know. Thank you.

[SAB123]

You need to stop talking to her and let go of her. My fiancé broke up with me 5 months ago, when I bring her up or someone else brings her up I start thinking of her and get depressed and its been 5 months. When you keep thinking of that person you are not letting go and that's why you still have these feelings. Disappear from her life.

[kogi_w]

Well My ex and i have been having really weird times. First off She called me about a month ago asking that i dont go to a show because she was going to be there. I ended up going, she was the one that found me in the crowd I might add. After the show she found me and we had a cigerette and a chat. It was ok. I then gave her a ride home and everything was fine. I didnt talk to her for a couple weeks and then called her asking to get my Things back that she still had at her house. When i got there she was a total to me for no reason. She was ragging on me about my beard and the way i dressed. She then said that i smelled like a cigerette and i said back to her " what you dont smoke anymore?" She stated that she was an entirely different person. And i chuckled. She helped me take things to my car and when we got down there she asked to buma smoke. I thought it odd after her last comment. Any way i left her place and both of us were at odds. I dont like that i left that way but it happens. I want to be friends with her but she says she can't do that because She knows I love her. I do, but i understand that we wont be back together, so i would like to make friends with her thats all. I just can't seem to let go and when i try to is depresses me, i am not sure why this is. She was a really good friend of mine and has now written me off. How do i get over these feelings and start moving forward. I can't let go it seems and it is driving me nuts. IF people have suggestions on what they think might be going with her. Or with me or things i could do to heal i am all ears. LEt me know. Thank you.

Hey how are you? Look I don't suggest with you because love never change to friendship so if you really decided to forget her so you have to let it go . Because if I believe you when you say you understand that you will be just friends so you are lying to yourself just to be beside her , and you make yourself fall in love more with her ,and I advice you to leave her and if she really loves you she will be back to you specially you said she knows that you are in love with her.and I respect her in something she refuse to accept to being in friendship because she knows that will make you love her more :( hope to hear from you soon and things get better :) bye